School Catastrophe – Second day

July 3rd, 2008 by maryranzgellie

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June 11, 2008. Database Class.

Ngaun naghihintay kame prof. Tahimik na pala kame. Oo nga no? Mga 10 percent decrease sa kaingayan. Bumabading na kasi lahat ng boys, e. haha. Nakakatawa pa dahil pagbukas ni Sir Francis ng assigned room, umupo na kami lahat dahil sa pagod maghintay ng nakatayo. Lagi naman e. So anong bago? Ayun! Biglang pasok ng epal na prof. Nyak joke lang po! Isang may-edad nang prof ang nagtanong sa’min pagkalayo ni Sir sa room, sabi nia, ”Bakit kayo andito? Sino prof nio?” Sinagot naman namin then sabi nia, “Room ko ito, e. Oo, room ko talaga. [Edi sa’yo na! haha]” Then sabi lang namin, nakaassign sa’min ‘yung room na ‘yun then umalis na sia after additional murmured words, “Dito talaga room ko, e.” Bumalik ung may-edad nang prof after about five minutes at ang sabi nia…

“Mga bata, [bata? Hoy Ms. Prof, university ho ito, hindi day care! Nyahaha!]…”

Ano kaya ang babalita nung may-edad nang prof?

“Mga bata, dito pala kayo…”

O sinong pahiya ngaun? Oha. Hehe. Pero panatilihin ang Kristiyanong paggawi! Kinamusta ku naman pamamanhikan ni Kuya Jemich. Ayun! Enk. Negative. Hekhek. Okay! Antuk na ku, 8am ulit pasok bukas. Mga 7:45 aku aalis. Aw. Edi 6:30 aku gigising. Tinanong ni She time ng uwian namin bukas pero tingin ko si Beez nagpatanong nun e. haha. Nyak. Sana? Asa ako. Tapos ung mp4 ko sa starmall ko na daw dalhin! Anak ng patatas.

Summery 2008

May 1st, 2008 by maryranzgellie

The last month was a bit of tiring, yet a sum of boredom. Actually, I always face a big problem each day, asking myself if what’s good thing to do this day or that. Anyway, kaya nga may vacation to refresh and relax. Parents lang ata ang wulang rest. I’m just on mood to summarize what I have accomplished last April.

I am trying to fix my schedule regarding with regularly reading the Bible but I stopped just last Feb or March because of hectic schedules on school. I just realized how I badly needed God Jehovah. I was planning really to get baptize this year 2008 and I guess, it will be really the very first achievement I would have in my entire life! But first, as usual, I should be as perfect as I prefer to. Being a baptized publisher isn’t being totally well-versed but being an individual with a Biblical converse? Kailangan before mabaptize, unbaptized publisher muna. I’m thankful so much everyday for having this belief and faith, that I was born with a God-fearing family. But aside from my own happiness and since it is wicked nowadays as the Bible says, it’s very suited to share your knowledge regarding the future forever peaceful and healthy living in paradise with your resurrected loved ones! Shy-type pa ku ng onte e! Saka hindi pa ku regular sa field ministry wherein you knock on someone’s house and read a text on Bible which eventually lead in having a new interested in studying the Bible. This Saturday naman ang una kong paglabas.

Actually dapat April 5 ako magha-house to house. I was invited by Ate Baby who takes care of my regular Bible study weekly. Accidentally, her mother was rushed to the hospital so it has been 3 weeks since we met and I didn’t attend the field ministry every Saturday. Nagkasakit pa kase ako. Basta ang daming nangyare sa’ken making it impossible for me to go outdoors. And sad to say, Ate Baby’s mother died at the age of 75 without my visitation! I also planned that thing pero un nga, dami ku naging saket.

Good thing! When boring moments enter the atmosphere, I would just read some of the organization’s monthly magazines and specialized books. One of my favorite is the Young People Ask and What Does the Bible really Teach book. I also call up some of my buddies like Zelan, Tina, Mr. past one and Ailene ahmm.. and this guy from sufer far away land who just disappeared in anguish on I think around April 17. Anyway, may mga dalaw din naman ako from Cheyserr and Ailene. These girls have the same capacities like mine which is ung makipagfone babad for such a long period! I think my longest conversation is four or five hours on phone! And on personal chatting, I think 8 hours.

Last weeks palang ng March, I went on a lot of swimming escape. First was with my whole family on my mother’s side at Batangas beaches (been a yearly summer vacation location) then swimming with my college colleagues at Cavite but I wasn’t able to go there due to parent restrictions (malayo daw. baka daw mag-eroplano! hahaha), high school reunion with the four-one family at Malabon resorts and lastly with my high school teachers somewhere in Bulacan. Next will be with our congregation (local organization of Jehovah’s witnesses) family but I still don’t have the information regarding the place and date.

Hmm..

I’d just narrate here two of the top eight highlights of my April. I was getting impatient with my scholarship allowance. The delay is totally cruel.. eleven months to be exact. I’ve been busy with my blogspot (http://batteredmilk.blogspot.com) so .. wala lang, advertisement! hehehe.. just feel free to visit it. So un nga, since me and my mother land the chances of unanswered phone calls from the scholarship news in our school, I went on my room to search for Jobo’s number. He’s currently taking up summer classes in Physics in my school, too. I asked him to check  my name on the accounting area. Two days after, he replied and decided to just check it next week because that is his next class. This conversation on texting was our first since birth. JOKE. since summer came naman!! After discussing about the scholarship, kinamusta namin ang isa’t-isa then a while passed and he apologized for having daw those "childish actions regarding his blog entitled University Issue Ko" which I never encountered before although if we are exchanging comment for some time in friendster, my eyes didn’t catch those links. Been curious, I read his blog and been surprised to what I understand. I almost cried while reading. Every words were unexpected… I was urged to comment back with almost 2000 words but good thing I made it just a plain draft and just decided not to post it because I thought people might judge me to be a big damn plastic. While browsing further on the internet, we were texting a bit and I suddenly reacted on his blog telling him what I felt but of course, he said na past na nga un and nothing to bother but but but I found out that it was just created last January 22 this year which crossed me thinking that it was indeed still fresh in Jobo’s sense.

Wondering what was on the blog? It’s about how he ended being a student on my school.. how he became so fool falling for a girl.. to summarize, he entered that school to follow the girl he is dying to be with for the rest of his life. The girl is one year ahead of him. Everything should have been the sweetest forms of romantic climax until he find himself dumb to forget the girl of his heart. He was hurt by the girl’s blogs about her love updates with different kind of man although he never knew that this girl is a single-since-birth. She’s just a plain lover killer. hahaha.. his big problem now is how to forget her knowing that he always sees this girl because they are schoolmates, buildingmates and under the same course! Nice conflict. He entered the school with just one reason left - to finish his studies. That’s really difficult as I thought but in a flash, it shaked my ego to express how much I misunderstood him. yea, I was this girl in reality… The blog was a burden for a week for me! But we managed to settled up things at its normal. Anyway, I can feel that we have much cooler startup because of the blog than before.

In conclusion, I got three crying children in front of PC. Jobo is the third one. Grabe, ilang times din daw sia umiyak sa harap ng PC because of my blogs. OA ha. hahaha joke lang tanda. kaw naman. Una si Faye e, ung salutatorian namin. Masaket talaga ako magsalita lalo na kung pinagsasabihan na ayaw pang sumunod. I think the blog for her still exists below. Anyway, ung second ata ung gf ni past admirer. Naiyak sa kakornihan ko daw. Well.. sa ngaun sana ung mga umiyak na un ay nagtanda na. Sometimes, so far as I know, they always turn on their PC just to spend time crying while reading my posts and then they would react so verbally violent to me. Insanity again. Di naman daw nagdrugs sabe ni Jethro. hahaha bahain ng mais. so ung second highlight, next time na lang kapag tinamad ako magtagalog, haha. Bahala na, I just hope I could find a piece of comment here tomorrow. Ü

cheeze whiz

April 2nd, 2008 by maryranzgellie

Maybe I should have at least a last message to you for this month.

You big fussing imbecile, keeps on following my stuffs. Tell me I’m a kind of uneducated, less important or whatever. But if you’re talking to yourself right now and concluded that I am a big UGLY FOOL, you are then a LOSER more FOOL than every one here thinks! That’s because you almost stick yourself on being my invisible tail, knowing everything I do and anything I’m with and worst, you got AGAIN that AIR-FULL brain! Take up more psychology classes. Science perhaps find great HOPES on your inborn ILLNESS!!! BELIEVE ME, my real perceptions turn darker when somebody finds out that you’re after her. HAHAHA. HAHAHA. HAHAHA. Nyenye nye-nye-nye >.<

Gnash Fan

March 3rd, 2008 by maryranzgellie

I have been receiving a lot of news about this abruptive lady who was a former retarded and now, somehow been cured by his boyfriend from her fraudulent acts. She’s always at her paranoid conditions wherein she almost visits my profile regularly. The only thing she can’t do is to hack my account and crash it all, making me feel a disaster in the bulletin or have an immoral image. Why won’t practice your future profession with me? If ever you fail, you’re indeed worst than I thought. Tell me these haven’t crossed your mind and you’re killing yourself with lies. =D

It’s so rocky cool to become a non-breathing human beside that cursed lady. In fact, his achuchay for life was trying to keep quiet against her and live life someday with her. That’s how he loves her. Got the word? It’s pity.

Whatelse are the reasons for being so avid visitor here in my blogs? I heard she made a tarpaulin herself to publicize my cleverness in striking someone’s embarrassing uninspiring life. I hope she got this quickly. HAHA. I remember the last time she reacted, she caught everything were real and literal suspections. Totally a feeble mind. That’s why I indirectly asked her if she’s onto reading fictions or oratorical speeches although my instincts correctly told me that she doesn’t. Poor. Cool.

Right now, if you’re always getting my point, back off and tell it to your barkadas - those with obviously  bad mouths and unideal image around. But if not, surely you will create a post, too. An english one, as well, which clearly makes you more paranoid - looking envious with everything I currently have.

Again, investigate fully like what my favorite character Sinitchi never forgets. Haven’t you feel tired of discovering a BIG hole here in my life? Disgusted bratt? FIND SOME HYPOTHALAMUS ON YOUR ANATOMY FIRST, CULPRIT before on mine. You see? Flirting with another guy even YOU’RE KEEPING YOUR HEART (OR LIVER? NYEK) with the antagonist? Ha? Can’t you just leave US alone. . . being friends without the relenting sigh. . .? If you still have the conscience to treasure a person you love, move on without Him. That’s too immature IF YOU CAN’T! And premature huh? Don’t have to think twice that you’re popular here as my dark side. Whatelse could it be? =D

Grab this. Feel satisfied. It’s your felicity yet you’re heaviest frustration. I’ll just try to hide my updates from you little wanderer. Don’t celebrate for how I came up here like this. You’re not soooo important to be a discussion onLine. I’m just warning everybody from your psychosomatic skills. Hope you have awakened your mind.

And by the way, I’m offering you a free IQ exam. Just wondering if it would fall below the borderline or it happens to be that a retarded blood circulates your body. =) a Friendly reminder.

si no te conocerte

December 20th, 2007 by maryranzgellie

"Ayos ka Lang.. Tahan na"

That defense started it all. Nasa mukha nia ung pagiging iyakin and ‘di naman maaaLis sa’kin maging comforter (unan?)…

First sem. MadaLas ku i-enumerate mga krash ku sa lagi kong kasama who we wouLd name here as Hamtaro. Before the crying incident, that day ku din na-assume na krash din aku ni krash ku. Let’s name him here as greenGobLin kasi nung first year pa kame, un na bansag ku sa kania kase basta.

Nagpoprogram sia nun time na un tapos bibiLi kame sa labas ni Hamtaro ng meryenda then niLapitan ku sia at umusisa. Naka-smiLe pa sia, hehe wuLa Lang, kunware important detaiL. :D WhiLe kinukuLit namin, I noticed his mp4 lying on his side. Hiniram ku at kinaLikot. MadaLi aman aku matuto when it comes to gadgets tapos maya-maya napunta aku sa Images nung mp4. Nakita ku agad pic nun besprend nia tapos pag-scroLL ku pababa, naguLat aku kasi famiLiar sa’kin ung next pic! And haha, my heart stopped beating. Hinimatay aku! Pero joke Lang.. Napa-smiLe lang aku.

greenGobLin: baket? (naka-indian sit sia sa upuan katapat ng laptop)

me: wuLa Lang, ampanget kasi ng mp4 mo. (nakatayo kame ni hamtaro sa tapat nia)

greenGobLin: ay ang yabang. paLibhasa mayaman!

me: taLaga.. mas maganda ung ganito ko nu. (hiniLa ku si hamtaro tapos kunware may tinatanong aku but actuaLLy, pinakita ku sa kania ung nakita ku at nagtawanan kame after)

me: o sia sige, magprogram ka na Lang! nakakainis ka kausap.

greenGobLin: yabang taLaga, supLada…

sabay aLis kame.

Hamtaro: picture mu un?

me: naman. ata? pic ku un weh! hahaha hahaha

hamtaro: Lumaki na naman uLo mu! krash ka rin ni greenGobLin!?

me: ay grabe, ang saya-saya ko! kaLa nia nde ku nakita un ha. nangunguha paLa sia ng pic ku sa friendster! kaso andun din pic ng bespren nia weh, hmf.

hamtaro: ok na un, krash ka rin naman paLa nia.

me: ahaha grabe hamtaro, unexpected un!

when we came back, nang-asar uLit aku…

me: antagaL matapos ha! kaw ba taLaga gumawa nian?

greenGobLin: uu aku taLaga nu. kahit wuLa akun aLam dito may nagagawa aku.

me: sige jan ka na!

at kasabay namen siLa nag-defend.

sir: kaw ba taLaga gumawa nian…? (mga 30 times tinanong ni sir ‘to kay greenGobLin!)

green: ako po taLaga.

and maya-maya nag-waLk out sia. andun din grupo namin nung time na un. Napansin ku na basa mata nia pag-aLis.

"ayos ka Lang.. tahan na greenGobLin. pasensia na wuLa akong panyo dito ha baka singahan mu kase"

"haha okay Lang un… bakit kase.. bakit kase ayaw niang maniwaLa na gawa ku un?"

"pabayaan mu na si sir, aLam mu naman ugaLi nun."

at nagdatingan ang former girL cLassmates nia at nagtanong.

siLa: o greenGobLin, anu nanyare, bakit ka umiiyak?

"…. ehi ehi.. hikbi"

siLa to me: bakit sia umiiyak?

"ay nako nakipagbreak kasi ako sa kania kaya ayan di nia kinaya hmf"

green: ehehe, uu nagbreak kami kaya aku umiiyak.

Aba sinakyan ako? kamusta naman at laki ng uLo ko ha. :D tapos nagpaaLam aku sa kaniLa dahiL kame na magdedefend. Nagkument aku sa friendster nia regarding dun sa iyak moments nia tapos na-disappoint pa sia nung naLaman nia sa iba na napagkaLat kung umiyak sia. Iba Lang paLa ung kwento ng friend niang nakabasa pero nung sia na mismo bumasa nung kument ko, nag-thank you sia sa’kin.

text Lang ang pag-uusap namin regarding that…

me: I’m so sorry. I thought I couLd comfort you thru my simpLe jokes. I just want to make you feeL not aLone. don’t worry, I’m about to erase it naman now. sorry uLit.

green: ok Lang un. nabasa ku na po, sirauLo Lang taLaga ung kaibigan ku na nagkuwento. thanks po. wag mu na burahin.

me: okay, smiLe ka na. pasaway.

green: haha kaw pa. thank you din po for being one of the reasons why I keep on smiLing. :D masaya akong nakiLaLa kita ms. maganda.

We reaLLy became cLose that time.. sa text? haha. Updater ku sia sa schooL stuffs kase kuhaan na ng cLass cards nun at nagkakatamaran bumaLik sa schooL. Ung iba kong cLass cards sa kania ku pinakukuha pero minsan nde binibigay. Ganun din sia. Naramdaman ku ung pagiging gentLeman nia that time. Pati kasuLuk-suLukan ng buhay namin ay naungkat muLa sa daddy nia at pagpupuyat ku. Nairita Lang aku sa pagiging boLero nia. MadaLas nia ku sabihan ng maganda at kung anu-ano pang hindi kapani-paniwaLa. ‘pag sinabihan ko namang boLero, sasabihin nia "hindi a, totoo ung sinasabi ko…" in a serious manner. haha katuwa. :D sabi ku pa sa kument may gusto akong itanong sa kania pero aLam ku na sagot. di ku na sinabe sa kania kung ano un tanong nung inopen nia ung topic. tatanong ko Lang aman if naging sila nung naLinked sa kania dating bespren nia… e bakit aman daw kase tatago kung talagang naging siLa di’ba… aun.

greenGobLin: bahaLa ka po kung hindi mo sasabihin ung tanong mo. pwede po bang ako na Lang magtanong?

me: o sige ba, ‘wag Lang math ha, pahinga utak ku ngaun sa pag-integrate. :D (this time kinakabahan na ‘ku kasi marami na nagtanong sa’kin ng "pwede po magtanong?" at expected ku na kasunod so…)

greenGobLin: nagkaBF ka na po ba?

me: (tawa nang tawa) haLaaa… wuLa po, nde uso ‘yaaan! mukha na ba ‘kong may BF!?

greenGobLin: ‘wag po kayong magagaLit ha pero OPO. hehehe

me: huhuhu tae kaaa!

greenGobLin: e bakit sa dinadami ng ehem e wuLa pa rin po?

me: ayoko, bawaL. kapag nagkawork pa ko saka ako mgkakaBF… bata pa ku nu.

greenGobLin: ah ganun po ba, mabuti nga po ‘yan. sure to success.

At hayun nga, super kiLig. Na-feeL ku gusto nia magCourt pero tinanggihan ku na naman. :( Isa Lang ang hindi ku nasabi kung bakit hindi pwede. Prefer ku kasi ung kapareho ku ng faith… un taLaga… Minsan kasi naiisip ku kung pwede Lang worLdLy baka lalakero na ku weh kaso gusto ko kung sinu na ung una ko, sia na asawa ku… May ginagaya Lang. hehehe After some time.. I don’t know what came to me pero I think tama ung sinabe sa’kin last time ni HanzeL… (lalaking nagbaLak din.. ata)

HanzeL: ganian naman kayong mga babae e. gusto nio laging naririnig ung pag-amin ng guys.

I agree to this. UntiL now.

Iba pang message ni greenGobLin…

seryoso ako… kaibigan ku rin si ****** ayoko Lang magkaron ng tensiyon uLit. hapi na ako na we’re in good terms as friends… hintayin kita toinkz

iiyak uLit aku sa araw na binasted mu na ko toinkz

anu si ranz? napakabait at napakataLino pero supLada at laging nambabara peace! lagi nia akong pinapasaya ayaw nia ng liligawan sia paktay nakakamis ung araw na andun sia para saken sana lagi kang anjan sana hindi mo ko iwan sana sagutin mo ko joke Lang po wish ko na sana maging successfuL ka promise ko na I won’t do anything or let anyone to hurt you..(the last line is his current shoutout kaya I heLd in his words knowing he wouLd stiLL be sincere .. but reaLity opposed..)

ei ranz gudevening miss ko na agad ang baby ko… wag kang papaLipas ng gutom GodbLess sweetdreams ingat ka Lage gudnyt

at maraming marami pa talaga… kala ku magiging kame pero considered basted na paLa sia sa tingin nia. nde man Lang nia ku piniLit.. hehe joke. :D wuLa na kameng komunikasyon sa ngaun at hindi ko na rin sia pinapansin dahiL na rin naisip kong magandang pang-moved on (sa krash) un pero hindi ko taLaga maLiLimutan ‘tong mga araw na kinikiLig ako kapag anjan Lang sia… hindi ko talaga krash pero nung umamin naging krash ku na din. Ganun aman Lage weh.. Nanyare na naman sa’kin ‘to…

Grabe, naiyak pa ku nung naLaman na aaLis na paLa sia. NagsusuLatan pa nga kame dati weh. Mahaba taLaga ung "Love story ko Part ten" HAHAHA promise. :D kung gusto nio ung iba pang detaiL, kument Lang keo… kuLang mga nakaLagay dito.

tae greenGobLin, krash pa din kita pero hindi na ata aabot sa Love un, nde taLaga. pero nasaktan ako nung sinabe mung hihintayin mo ‘ko tapos malaLaman kong mahaL na mahaL mo taLaga bes mo at binaLak mu pa Ligawan.. dame ku pa sana gustong sabihin pero kakaLimutan ko na Lang. tutaL, lalayo ka na, maiiwan na ‘ko, kame na Laging susuporta seo. :D sa dami ng sasabihin ku sana kahit man Lang last time makapag-usap tayo and mayakap din kita kahit pa’nu. Ü

Ingat ka na Lang and sana matanggap mu ung thank you and sorry ko dahiL aLam ko may mga bagay ka o actions ko na hindi mo naintindihan… ah basta. Nga paLa, kahit keLan hindi ka naging istorbo. Ge.Ingat… Ciao. XD

• Why is it that Jehovah’s Witnesses do not celebrate birthdays?

December 14th, 2007 by maryranzgellie


 

Basically, it is because
they respect the Word of God and are keenly interested in responding to its
indications.

Birthday
celebrations are popular world wide and have been for millenniums. Often there
will be a party, with presents being given. But does the Bible say anything
about birthdays?

It can be said at
the outset that the Bible does not discourage generous giving to a loved one.
(Gen. 33:10, 11; Luke 15:22; 2 Cor. 8:19) Nor does it discourage enjoying a
feast or party, for eating and drinking in moderation are recommended as one
means of enjoying life. (Eccl. 3:12, 13) Jesus shared in a wedding feast. Job’s
children held what may have been harvest feasts that occasioned family
reunions. Abraham had a feast when Isaac was weaned. (John 2:1, 2; Job 1:4, 5,
13; Gen. 21:8) And even though it was not commanded by God, the Jews held an
annual festival on the anniversary of the rededication of the temple, which
feast Jesus attended.—John 10:22, 23.

The Bible does,
though, indicate that certain caution is needed, for it would not be proper to
share in just any celebration regardless of its reason or nature. (Ex. 32:1-6;
1 Pet. 4:3; 1 Cor. 10:20, 21) What about noting and celebrating birthdays?

Obviously, many
true worshipers kept record of birth dates. Priests and others knew their ages.
Such a matter was not left to guesswork. (Num. 1:2, 3; 4:3; 8:23-25) But there
is nothing in the Scriptures to suggest that true worshipers had annual
birthday celebrations.

The Bible reports
only two birthday celebrations, both of persons who were not servants of the
true God.

The first was that
of Pharaoh of Egypt. It was marked by the hanging of Pharaoh’s baker, who had
been in prison with Joseph. (Gen. 40:18-22) Commenting on Genesis 40:20, Dr.
Adam Clarke observes: “The distinguishing [of] a birthday by a feast appears
from this place to have been a very ancient custom. It probably had its origin
from [the] notion of the immortality of the soul, as the commencement of
life must appear of great consequence to that person who believed he was to
live for ever.”

The second, some
1,800 years later, was the birthday of Herod Antipas. The account in Mark
6:21-24 reads:

“But a convenient
day came along when Herod spread an evening meal on his birthday for his
top-ranking men and the military commanders and the foremost ones of Galilee.
And the daughter of this very Herodias came in and danced and pleased Herod and
those reclining with him. The king said to the maiden: ‘Ask me for whatever you
want, and I will give it to you.’ Yes, he swore to her: ‘Whatever you ask me
for, I will give it to you, up to half my kingdom.’ And she went out and said
to her mother: ‘What should I ask for?’ She said: ‘The head of John the
baptizer.’”—See also Matthew 14:6-11.

Regarding the
account of Herod’s birthday, Dr. Richard Lenski comments: “The Jews abhorred
the keeping of birthdays as being a pagan custom, but the Herods even outdid
the Romans in these celebrations, so that ‘Herod’s birthday’ (Herodis dies)
came to be a proverbial expression for excessive festival display.”

How are we to look
at these two birthday celebrations? Is it just coincidental that they are
mentioned and that both were for persons not having God’s approval? Or could it
be that Jehovah deliberately had these details recorded in his Word, which he
says is “beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight”?
(2 Tim. 3:16) At the very least it can be said that these two accounts
Biblically put birthday celebrations in a bad light, as a practice of those
estranged from God.

Also, it is worth
noting that God did not record the exact date of Jesus’ birth, which certainly
would be the most important birthday if God’s servants were to celebrate
birthdays. Instead, the Bible indicates the date of Jesus’ death and
instructs Christians to commemorate that as an anniversary each year. (Luke
22:19; 1 Cor. 11:23-26) This harmonizes with the fact that the Bible says that
the day of a person’s death is more significant than the day of his birth if he
has made a good name with God during his lifetime.—Eccl. 7:1, 8.

Consistent with
the Scriptural indications, the early Christians did not hold birthday
celebrations.

“The notion of a birthday
festival was far from the ideas of the Christians of this period in
general.”—The History of the Christian Religion
and Church During the First Three Centuries,
by Augustus Neander.

As time passed and
there was a falling away from pure Christianity, what began to be commemorated
was the death, not the birth.

“The reverence in
which the martyrs were held led to an undue attachment to the scene and day of
their death. By a happy thought the day of a martyr’s death was called his
birthday. The places where the martyrs had died were regarded with a holy awe.
. . . On the anniversary days the services [in the churches] were largely
devoted to recalling his services and character. . . . It must be remembered,
however, that these [annual] memorial services were no part of the general
order of the Church.”—History of the Christian Church,
by Dr. John F. Hurst, Vol. 1, pp. 350, 351.

So even though the
Bible does not contain a specific prohibition against birthday celebrations,
Jehovah’s Witnesses have long noted the Scriptural indications and have not
celebrated birthdays. In this, they harmonize with the pattern of the earliest
Christians.

Also, while there
is no Bible justification for annually celebrating the date of a Christian’s
death, we can agree that the day of death is better than the day of his birth.
Thus we should concentrate, not on the day of birth but on each day imitating
Christ and reflecting God’s image. Should we die, then we will have glorified
God by our way of life, and he will surely remember us.—Heb. 5:9; 11:6; Phil.
3:8-11.

“Why I Don’t Celebrate Christmas”

December 14th, 2007 by maryranzgellie

  
 

SOME say that children of Jehovah’s Witnesses are deprived because they don’t
celebrate Christmas. But consider the essay “Why I Don’t Celebrate Christmas”
that an 11-year-old Witness in California, U.S.A., wrote as a class assignment:

“To many people, Christmas means a lot of things—presents, family,
presents, food, presents, sharing, presents, love, presents, Santa Claus,
presents, etc. Yet people nowadays rarely ever think about what Christmas means
or why they celebrate it. If they do, they usually think of Christmas as Jesus
Christ’s birthday, a time for family and, of course, lots of presents. Most
people pity Jehovah’s Witnesses because they think their children are deprived.
But are we really missing out on something? Let’s consider why Jehovah’s
Witnesses don’t celebrate this holiday.

“As one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, I don’t celebrate Christmas for many
reasons. For one thing, it isn’t Jesus’ birthday. The Bible says there were
shepherds out in the fields with their sheep. In Jerusalem it is very cold in
the winter and often snows. It is very unlikely that the shepherds would live
outside during these months. . . . There is more to it, though.

“Not only was Christmas not Jesus’ birthday but it was never observed by
first century Christians. Its origins lie in the ancient Roman festival
Saturnalia, beginning Dec. 17 and ending Dec. 25, the ‘birthday of the
unconquered sun.’ In the fourth century, some Roman official decided to
celebrate Jesus’ birthday Dec. 25, perhaps to sanctify their pagan holiday.

“It is no wonder that Christmas was banned from many different countries. Today
some people (like Jehovah’s Witnesses) have followed their example. . . .

“I used to celebrate Christmas—until I was four years old. . . . As to
being deprived, Jehovah’s Witnesses most certainly are not. We get
presents all year long. The only things we’re missing are these pagan holidays
and their equally pagan celebrations.”

Although the teacher noted on the paper, “Not all people wish for
presents,” she also wrote, “Very well done,” and gave the student an “A.”

 

Christmas—Is It Truly Christian?

December 14th, 2007 by maryranzgellie


 

ACCORDING to The
World Book Encyclopedia, “Christmas is the day on which
Christians celebrate the birthday of Jesus Christ.” Nevertheless, the
encyclopedia also states: “The early Christians did not celebrate [Jesus’]
birth because they considered the celebration of anyone’s birth to be a pagan custom.”

The Making of
the Modern Christmas, by Golby and Purdue, agrees: “Early
Christians did not celebrate the birth of Christ. Birthdays in themselves were
associated with pagan practices; the Gospels say nothing about the actual date
of Christ’s birth.”

If birthday
celebrations do not have a Christian background, how did the birthday of Christ
become such a prominent “Christian” festival?

The Pagan Origin of “Christmas”

“Everyone feasted
and rejoiced, work and business were for a season entirely suspended, the
houses were decked with laurel and evergreen, visits and presents were
exchanged between friends, and clients gave gifts to their patrons. The whole
season was one of rejoicing and goodwill, and all kinds of amusements were
indulged in by the people.”—Paganism in Christian Festivals,
by J. M. Wheeler.

Does this
description fit the Christmas festivities you know? Surprisingly this was not
Christmas! Rather, that is a description of Saturnalia—a week-long pagan Roman
festival associated with the winter solstice (depicted on opposite page). The
birthday of the unconquered sun was celebrated on December 25, a principal
feast-day of Rome’s Mithraic religion.

According to The
New Encyclopædia Britannica, “December 25, the birthday of
Mithra, the Iranian god of light and . . . the day devoted to the invincible
sun, as well as the day after the Saturnalia, was adopted by the church as
Christmas, the nativity of Christ, to counteract the effects of these
festivals.” So the pagan birthday celebration continued with a simple switch in
names, from Mithra to Christ!

However, you may
feel that the birth of God’s Son, Jesus, was something special, deserving to be
remembered. A look at what the Bible relates about this will prove to be very
enlightening.

A Joyous Event

The 2nd chapter of
Luke’s Gospel sets the scene. Luke tells us how heavenly angels, humble
shepherds, devout servants of God, and Mary herself reacted to this noteworthy
event.

Consider first the
“shepherds living out of doors” who were “keeping watches in the night over
their flocks,” which they would not have been doing in the depths of winter.
When “Jehovah’s angel” appeared and God’s glory shone around them, the
shepherds were at first afraid. Reassurance came when the angel explained:
“Have no fear, for, look! I am declaring to you good news of a great joy that
all the people will have, because there was born to you today a Savior, who is
Christ the Lord.” When “a multitude of the heavenly army” of angels suddenly
appeared, the shepherds knew that this birth was different from all others.
Interestingly, the angels brought no gifts for the newborn infant. Rather, the
angels praised Jehovah, saying: “Glory in the heights above to God, and upon
earth peace among men of goodwill.”—Luke 2:8-14.

Naturally, the
shepherds wanted to see this baby for themselves, for it was Jehovah who had
announced the happy event. When they found the infant lying in the manger, they
told the parents what the angels had said. The shepherds then departed,
“glorifying and praising God,” not the baby.—Luke 2:15-18, 20.

Mary, Jesus’
mother, no doubt rejoiced over the successful delivery of her firstborn. But
she also drew “conclusions in her heart.” Then, accompanied by her husband,
Joseph, she traveled to Jerusalem in obedience to the Mosaic Law. This was no
birthday celebration. Instead, it was a time to present the infant to God,
“just as it is written in Jehovah’s law: ‘Every male opening a womb must be
called holy to Jehovah.’”—Luke 2:19, 22-24.

At the temple in
Jerusalem, Mary and Joseph encountered Simeon, whom Luke describes as
“righteous and reverent, waiting for Israel’s consolation.” Under inspiration,
he had been told that he would not die before seeing “the Christ of Jehovah.”
What happened next was also “under the power of [God’s] spirit.” Simeon took
the infant in his arms, no, not to give him a present, but, rather, to bless
God, saying: “Now, Sovereign Lord, you are letting your slave go free in peace
according to your declaration; because my eyes have seen your means of saving
that you have made ready in the sight of all the peoples.”—Luke 2:25-32.

Next, the aged
prophetess Anna came near. She too “began returning thanks to God and speaking
about the child to all those waiting for Jerusalem’s deliverance.”—Luke
2:36-38.

Mary, Simeon, Anna,
the shepherds, as well as the heavenly angels, all rejoiced at
Jesus’ birth. Please note, however, that they indulged in no birthday revelry,
nor did they engage in gift giving. Rather, they glorified Jehovah,
the heavenly Provider of their means of salvation.

Still, some may
reason, ‘Surely Christmas gift giving cannot be wrong, for did not the “three
wise men” honor Jesus with gifts?’

Christmas Gifts

Again let us
examine the Biblical account. You will find it recorded in Matthew’s Gospel,
chapter 2. There is no mention of any birthday celebration, nor is any specific
time given, though obviously it was some time after Jesus’ birth. In verse 1,
Matthew calls the visitors “astrologers [Greek, ma´goi] from eastern
parts,” hence pagans with no knowledge of Jehovah God. The star these men
followed led them, not directly to Jesus’ birthplace in Bethlehem, but to
Jerusalem, where King Herod ruled.

When this wicked
ruler heard them inquiring about “the one born king of the Jews,” he sought out
the priests to find exactly “where the Christ was to be born” so that he could
have the child killed. The priests answered by quoting Micah’s prophecy that
located Messiah’s birthplace in Bethlehem. (Micah 5:2) Herod hypocritically
instructed his visitors: “Go make a careful search for the young child, and
when you have found it report back to me, that I too may go and do it
obeisance.” The astrologers went on their way, and the star “went ahead of
them, until it came to a stop above where the young child was.” Notice that he
is described as a “young child,” not as a newborn baby.—Matthew 2:1-10.

As befitted
Oriental magnates visiting a ruler, the pagan astrologers fell down and
“presented [the young child] with gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh.”
Matthew adds: “However, because they were given divine warning in a dream not
to return to Herod, they withdrew to their country by another way.”—Matthew
2:11, 12.

From this brief
Scriptural account, some people might attempt to find support for their
Christmas gift giving. Nevertheless, Discovering Christmas Customs
and Folklore explains that the current custom of giving gifts
finds its roots in the Saturnalia gifts that Romans offered their poor
neighbors. “The early church . . . cleverly transferred its significance to a
ritual commemoration of the gifts of the Magi.” What a contrast this is to the
true worshipers—such as the humble shepherds—who simply praised God at Jesus’
birth!

Honor Christ as King!

Today Jesus is no
longer a baby. He is a powerful Potentate, King of God’s heavenly Kingdom, and
he should be honored as such.—1 Timothy 6:15, 16.

If you are now an
adult, have you ever felt embarrassed when, in your presence, people showed
photographs of you as a baby? True, such pictures remind your parents of their
joy at your birth. But now that you have an identity of your own, do you not
usually prefer others to see you as you are? In a similar vein, think how
disrespectful it is toward Christ Jesus when those who claim to be his
followers become so engrossed each year in the pagan traditions of Christmas
and in honoring an infant that they fail to honor him as King. Why, even in the
first century, the Christian apostle Paul reasoned on the propriety of thinking
of Christ as he now is—a King in heaven. Paul wrote: “Even if we have known
Christ according to the flesh, certainly we now know him so
no more”!—2 Corinthians 5:16.

Christ, as King of
God’s Kingdom, will soon make come true the prophetic promise to remove pain,
suffering, disease, and death. He is the One who will ensure adequate housing
and rewarding work for all under Paradise conditions here on earth. (Isaiah
65:21-23; Luke 23:43; 2 Corinthians 1:20; Revelation 21:3, 4) Surely, these are
reasons enough to avoid dishonoring Jesus!

Following Christ’s
own example, true Christians strive to give their neighbors one of the greatest
gifts anyone can offer—an understanding of God’s purpose, which can lead to
eternal life. (John 17:3) This type of gift giving brings them much joy, even
as Jesus said: “There is more happiness in giving than there is in
receiving.”—Acts 20:35; Luke 11:27, 28.

Christians who have
a genuine interest in one another find no difficulty in spontaneously
expressing their love at any time of the year. (Philippians 2:3, 4) As a simple
example, what a thrill it would be to receive a picture from a Christian
youngster who, after listening to a Bible talk, drew it as an expression of
thanks! Equally encouraging is the unexpected present from a relative as a
token of that one’s love. Likewise, Christian parents gain much joy when they
choose appropriate occasions throughout the year to give gifts to their
children. This kind of Christian generosity is untarnished either by perceived
obligation on celebration days or by pagan tradition.

Consequently, today
over four and a half million Christians from all nations do not celebrate
Christmas. These are Jehovah’s Witnesses, who regularly busy themselves by
giving to their neighbors a witness about the good news of God’s Kingdom.
(Matthew 24:14) You may well meet them when they visit your home, perhaps soon.
May your eager reception of what they bring you lead your family to great joy,
as you learn how to praise Jehovah God every day of the year.—Psalm 145:1, 2.

 

What Would Jesus Say?

December 14th, 2007 by maryranzgellie


 

Christmas is said to be a birthday
party for Jesus. So there could hardly be a better judge of Christmas than
Christ. If he were here on earth, what would he say about Christendom’s biggest
holiday?

IMAGINE, if you
will, Jesus walking down the gaily bedecked and brightly lighted streets of one
of Christendom’s major cities. It is Christmas time. The town Christmas tree
blazes in resplendent glory. Santa Clauses seem to be everywhere. And so do the
shoppers. They are dashing in droves to department stores to make last-minute
purchases. From loudspeakers blare Christmas carols interspersed with blatant
commercials. Cash registers add their financially satisfying song to the din. A
“Merry Christmas” slides off active tongues. The Christmas spirit has reached a
high pitch. Amid all the commotion Jesus inquires of a celebrant about the
meaning of all this unusual bustle.

“Oh,” comes the
reply, “this is Christmas, the greatest birthday party of the year.” “But,”
asks Jesus, “whose birthday is it?”

Whose birthday is
it? A strange question? Not really. A newcomer to Christendom would truly
wonder. After all, does the furious exchange of gifts identify the one in whose
honor the celebration is being held? Do the millions of dollars of advertising
tell whose birthday is being celebrated? Do the lavish displays in store
windows, the decorated Christmas trees or the colored lights strung in the
streets tell whose birthday it is? And Santa Claus, the great central figure in
millions of homes, who symbolizes this celebration as no other character does,
fails to enlighten the stranger as to whose birthday it is.

Not strange,
then, that Jesus would ask the celebrant: “Whose birthday is it?” “Oh,” comes
the answer, “it’s December 25, Christ’s birthday.” Now what would Jesus say?
That not only does the celebration fail to honor the Son of God but the date is
all wrong. Referring to the Bible record, Jesus could show that he was not born
in December at all. How so? Because the Bible shows he was born on or about
October 1, 2 B.C., that he came as Messiah A.D. 29 and was put to death three
and a half years later, or about April 1, A.D. 33. The account of the “seventy
weeks’” prophecy at Daniel 9:24-27 and Luke 3:1, 23 and other scriptures
testify to this.

But Jesus could
point out still more: that there is a marked contrast in weather in Palestine
between October and December. When Jesus was born, the Scriptures show, the
shepherds were out at night: “There were also in that same country shepherds
living out of doors and keeping watches in the night over their flocks. ‘And
this is a sign for you: you will find an infant bound in cloth bands and lying
in a manger.’” (Luke 2:8, 12, NW) Shepherds would not have their flocks
out in the open fields in December but they would in October. The December date
is all wrong.

TURNED ASIDE TO
FALSE STORIES

Now what would
Jesus say about Christendom’s religions’ taking part in a hoax and leading
people to believe he was born on December 25? He would point to the prophecy
made by one of his apostles: “There will be a period of time when they will not
put up with the healthful teaching, but, in accord with their own desires, they
will accumulate teachers for themselves to have their ears tickled, and they
will turn their ears away from the truth, whereas they will be turned aside to
false stories.”—2 Tim. 4:3, 4, NW.

“Turned aside to
false stories.” And why? It is “in accord with their own desires.” What an apt
scripture! Though many people know Jesus was not born on December 25, they
prefer to have the holiday “in accord with their own desires.” Yes, despite the
falseness of it, they prefer it this way. Not only that but, despite the
commercialization of the holiday, they still prefer it this way. That is why on
New Year’s Day, 1953, the Washington Post said in its leading editorial:

“The American
Christmas has become commercialized to an extent that is shocking to many
foreigners and that almost transforms it into a national orgy of sentimental
materialism. But there also remains the fact that it is not merely the
manufacturers and advertisers, but the great part of the American people, who
prefer to have it this way.”

Like the
Israelites who tolerated religious falsehoods and abominations for what selfish
gain they could derive from false stories, so are the Christmas celebrants who
not only tolerate but prefer the hoax of Christ’s birthday party. So well might
Jesus point to the words of Jehovah: “An awful and appalling thing has happened
in the land: the prophets prophesy by false gods, and the priests make profit
through them; my people love to have it so.”—Jer. 5:30, 31, AT.

There is more
that Jesus would say of December 25: namely, that it has a profound pagan
significance. And history clearly bears this out. The pagans celebrated the
birthday of the Persian god Mithras on December 25. And on or about December 25
another big pagan celebration took place. This was the Saturnalia, held in
honor of Saturn, the god of agriculture. At this celebration people paraded
through the streets singing; candles were lit and placed in the windows of
homes. People exchanged presents and everyone feasted and visited with friends.
These pagan customs, historians admit, are the real bases for the December 25
celebration.

NO COMMAND TO COMMEMORATE
BIRTHDAYS

What would Jesus
say to those professed Christians who try to justify Christmas in spite of its
false date and pagan background? He would say that he never commanded it, that
his birthday was never celebrated by any of his apostles or early disciples,
that it was only after the foretold apostasy that the Christmas celebration
came into existence among professed Christians. This apostasy was foretold by
Christ’s apostle, who said that it would result in “twisted things.” “I know
that after my going away oppressive wolves will enter in among you and will not
treat the flock with tenderness, and from among you yourselves men will rise
and speak twisted things.” (Acts 20:29, 30, NW) Not until the fourth
century did the Christmas celebration gain headway among professed Christians.
By then the apostasy had taken place, a pagan holiday was clothed in a
Christian name and the Roman Catholic Church gave the holiday its blessing—all
to increase the number of nominal adherents to Christianity.

Not concerning
the celebration of his birthday did Jesus say: “Keep doing this in remembrance
of me.” It was said concerning the memorial of his death, an event far more
vital to mankind than Jesus’ birth. Thus Jesus, commanding his followers to
keep the memorial of his death instead of his birth, followed the Scriptural
principle: “Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof.” And so it
is that in the Bible birthdays are celebrated only by pagans. Pharaoh’s
birthday, mentioned at Genesis 40:20, and Herod’s birthday, at Matthew 14:6-10,
were both blackened by murderous executions. Christians are not commanded to
observe any holiday: “But now that you have come to know God, or rather now
that you have come to be known by God, how is it that you are turning back
again to the weak and inadequate elementary things and want to be slaves to
them over again? You are scrupulously observing days and months and seasons and
years. I fear for you, that somehow I have toiled to no purpose respecting
you.”—Luke 22:19, NW; Eccl. 7:8, AS; Gal. 4:9-11, NW.

And what would
Jesus say of all the prominence given to “three” wise men on Christmas cards
and decorations? He would ask why all the honor is given them, for the wise men
were astrologers or demon worshipers. God’s law emphatically condemns astrologers.
(Deut. 4:19; 2 Ki. 17:16; Isa. 47:13, 14) Since the slaying of the many young
boys was associated with the trip of the astrologers, it is not logical that
God led them to Jesus. If not God, then who did? It must have been Satan the
Devil, for no light in the sky of natural origin could direct the astrologers.
Satan used the “star” to guide the astrologers in his scheme to locate Jesus
for destruction by Herod.

CHRIST A KING,
NOT A BABE

What would Jesus
say of the endless portrayal of him as an infant? He would say that he no
longer is an infant, so why cause people to think of him as a babe? Viewing
Jesus only as a babe is dangerous. It diverts one from the vital fact that he
has been empowered by his Father as King and that he now reigns and will shortly
smash all nations with a rod of iron as he “carries on war in righteousness.”
Should a world-smashing King, indeed, the “King of kings and Lord of lords,” be
thought of as a babe? Thus the focusing of the people’s attention on Jesus as
an infant is a deception, a deception perpetrated by that master Deceiver,
Satan the Devil.—Rev. 19:11-16, NW.

And what would
Jesus say of the Christmas celebrants themselves? Does their conduct honor
Christ? In one sweeping statement Jesus could answer, quoting the prophecy
concerning the “last days” in which there will be “lovers of pleasures rather
than lovers of God.” Christmas time spawns an overabundance of these. Not only
that but at Christmas time many celebrants, like the ancient pagans, hurtle
into the sullied seas of overdrinking, overeating and immorality. Christ’s
commandments for a Christian allow no room at any time for turning back to the
ways of the old world, much less at an occasion supposedly held to honor
Christ. “The time that has passed by is sufficient for you to have worked out
the will of the nations when you proceeded in deeds of loose conduct, lusts,
excesses with wine, revelries, drinking matches, and idolatries.”—2 Tim. 3:1-4;
1 Pet. 4:3, NW.

Just what would
Jesus say of the Christmas customs, the use of holly, mistletoe, Yule logs and
Christmas trees? He would state the candid facts, just as the encyclopedias do:
that such customs are not Christian practices but are of heathen origin.

What would Jesus
say about giving presents? Certainly Jesus would not condemn giving; he
commended it as a source of happiness. Yet the exchanging of gifts, as it is
done at Christmas, would not receive Jesus’ approval, for the giving is
patterned after the exchanging of gifts during the pagan Saturnalia. Also, most
Christmas giving is done on a reciprocal basis; Christ said to give to those
who cannot repay you. And the Bible does not, as some think, set the pattern
for gift exchanging. Who brought gifts to Jesus? None other than the
demon-worshiping astrologers! Certainly Christians are not to follow their
example. Nor need Christians await a pagan holiday to display a benevolent
kindness that they should practice 365 days a year.

And what would
Jesus say of teeming celebrants whose excitement does not conceal their
ignorance, their lack of knowledge of the kingdom that Christ preached as the
hope of the world? He would say that the people are too busy to learn the way
to life and Christmas only makes them that much busier. So Jesus would say just
what he did at Luke 17:26, 27 (NW): “Just as it occurred in the days of
Noah, so it will be also in the days of the Son of man: they were eating, they
were drinking, men were marrying, women were being given in marriage, until
that day when Noah entered into the ark, and the flood arrived and destroyed
them all.” Nothing wrong with these pursuits, but the trouble is people busy
themselves so deeply in them, especially at Christmas time, eating, drinking
and buying, that they have no room in their lives for knowledge of God’s
purposes through his Son. And so ignorance of the oncoming war of Armageddon
and of the incoming new world remains widespread.

So what would
Christ say of Christmas? That Christmas is a religious hoax, a commercial trap,
a pagan holiday, a dishonor to him and a degrading of Christianity. He could
never approve it; he could never recognize it as a true Christian practice.
That means that those who celebrate it come under Christ’s disapproval. That
being the case, why celebrate Christmas? Why not be free of this colossal
commercial snare? No need to celebrate because other professed Christians do!
Indeed, there is no need to be among those teeming professed Christians whom,
despite their protests of doing works in Christ’s name, the King refuses to
recognize:

“Many will say to
me in that day: ‘Master, Master, did we not prophesy in your name, and expel demons
in your name, and perform many powerful works in your name?’ And yet then I
will confess to them: I never knew you at all. Get away from me, you workers of
lawlessness.” So that you never have to get away from Christ then, get away
from Christmas now.—Matt. 7:22, 23, NW.

Do All Parties Please God?

December 14th, 2007 by maryranzgellie

DO YOU like to have parties?— They can be lots of fun. Do you think the Great Teacher would want us to go to parties?— Well, he went to what could be called a party when someone got married, and some of his disciples went with him. Jehovah is “the happy God,” so he is pleased when we enjoy ourselves at good parties.—1 Timothy 1:11; John 2:1-11.
Page 29 of this book tells us that Jehovah parted the Red Sea to let the Israelites pass through. Do you remember reading that?— Afterward, the people sang and danced and gave thanks to Jehovah. It was like a party. The people were very happy, and we can be sure that God was happy too.—Exodus 15:1, 20, 21.
Nearly 40 years later, the Israelites went to another big party. This time the people who invited them did not even worship Jehovah. In fact, the people who invited them even bowed down to worship other gods and would have sex relations with people they were not married to. Do you think it was all right to go to a party like that?— Well, Jehovah was not pleased, and he punished the Israelites.—Numbers 25:1-9; 1 Corinthians 10:8.
The Bible also tells about two birthday parties. Was one of them to celebrate the birthday of the Great Teacher?— No. Both of these birthday parties were for men who did not serve Jehovah. One was the birthday party for King Herod Antipas. He was the ruler of the district of Galilee when Jesus lived there.
King Herod did many bad things. He took the wife of his brother for himself. Her name was Herodias. God’s servant John the Baptist told Herod that it was wrong for him to do that. Herod did not like that. So he had John locked up in prison.—Luke 3:19, 20.
While John was in prison, the day came for celebrating Herod’s birth. Herod gave a big party. He invited many important people. They all ate and drank and enjoyed themselves. Then the daughter of Herodias came in and danced for them. Everyone was so pleased with her dancing that King Herod wanted to give her a special gift. He said to her: “Whatever you ask me for, I will give it to you, up to half my kingdom.”
What would she ask for? Would it be money? pretty clothes? a palace of her own? The girl did not know what to say. So she went to her mother, Herodias, and said: “What should I ask for?”
Now Herodias hated John the Baptist very much. So she told her daughter to ask for his head. The girl went back to the king and said: “I want you to give me right away on a platter the head of John the Baptist.”
King Herod did not want to kill John because he knew that John was a good man. But Herod had made a promise, and he was afraid of what others at the party would think if he changed his mind. So he sent a man to the prison to chop off the head of John. Soon the man came back. He had John’s head on a platter, and he gave it to the girl. Then the girl gave it to her mother.—Mark 6:17-29.
The other birthday party that the Bible tells about wasn’t any better. It was for a king of Egypt. During this party also, the king had someone’s head chopped off. Then, after that, he hung the man up for the birds to eat! (Genesis 40:19-22) Do you think that God approved of those two parties?— Would you have wanted to be at them?—
We know that everything in the Bible is there for a reason. It tells about just two birthday parties. And at both of them, bad things were done as part of the celebration. So, what would you say that God is telling us about birthday parties? Does God want us to celebrate birthdays?—
It is true that at such parties today, people do not chop off someone’s head. But the whole idea of celebrating birthdays started with people who did not worship the true God. The Catholic Encyclopedia says about the birthday celebrations mentioned in the Bible: “Only sinners . . . make great rejoicings over the day on which they were born.” Do we want to be like them?—
What about the Great Teacher? Did he celebrate his birthday?— No, the Bible does not say anything about a birthday party for Jesus. In fact, Jesus’ early followers did not celebrate his birthday. Do you know why people later chose to celebrate Jesus’ birthday on December 25?—
That date was chosen because, as The World Book Encyclopedia says, “the people of Rome already observed it as the Feast of Saturn, celebrating the birthday of the sun.” So people chose to celebrate Jesus’ birthday on a date when pagans already had a holiday!
Do you know why Jesus could not have been born in December?— Because the Bible says that when Jesus was born, shepherds were still in the fields at night. (Luke 2:8-12) And they would not have been out there in the cold, rainy month of December.
Many people know that Christmas is not the birthday of Jesus. They even know that on that day pagans had a celebration that was not pleasing to God. But many celebrate Christmas anyway. They are more concerned with having a party than with finding out what God really thinks about it. But we want to please Jehovah, don’t we?—
So when we have parties, we want to make sure that they are good ones in Jehovah’s eyes. We can have them anytime during the year. We don’t have to wait for a special day. We can eat some special food and have fun playing games. Would you like to do that?— Maybe you can talk with your parents and plan a party with their help. That would be nice, wouldn’t it?— But before you make the plans for a party, you want to make sure it is something that God would approve.
The importance of always doing what God approves is also shown at Proverbs 12:2; John 8:29; Romans 12:2; and 1 John 3:22.